Hattie Wiener
Hattie Wiener (also known as Hattie Retroage; May 25, 1936 – June 21, 2024) was an American sexologist, sex coach, dating coach, model, and media personality.[1][2] She dated much younger men and was popularly known as "the oldest cougar".[3]
Wiener was born in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, on May 25, 1936, and named for her father's role in the hatters' labor union.[1] She married at 22, had children, and worked professionally as a dance teacher at the School for Creative Movement.[1][2] She established a practice where she incorporated dance to help women deal with sexual issues connected to aging.[1] When she was 55, her husband asked for a divorce and Wiener began dating younger men whom she met through personal advertisements, and later online dating sites such as Tinder.[1][4]
In her 70s, she was featured as a model in Vogue and appeared on television programs such as TLC's Extreme Cougar Wives, Dr. Phil, and Inside Edition.[2]
Wiener died on June 21, 2024, in New York, aged 88.[5]
References
- ^ a b c d e Beling, Sarah (July 3, 2024). ""The Oldest Cougar": Hell's Kitchen Legend Hattie Wiener Passes Away at 88". W42ST. Retrieved October 12, 2025.
- ^ a b c Moneuse, Emma (April 12, 2023). "The "World's Oldest Cougar" Hattie Wiener on Getting Sexier with Age". Mission Magazine. Retrieved October 12, 2025.
- ^ "Hattie Wiener is Still The Oldest Cougar" (Press release). EIN Presswire. August 6, 2023.
- ^ Roberts, Kit (July 13, 2024). "87-year-old proud 'super cougar' reveals why she only dates men much younger than her". UNILAD. Retrieved October 12, 2025.
- ^ Green, Penelope (July 11, 2024). "Hattie Wiener, Sex-Positive 'Oldest Cougar,' Dies at 88". The New York Times. Retrieved October 12, 2025.